Code of Ethics

Filorgy Lifestyle has a very firm code of ethics that are essential and important to make this a safe engaging environment.

You and your potential partner(s) share a common goal: To mutually fulfil both of your desires. It doesn't matter how often, with whom, where, or in what style. Filorgy will provide you matches that is in tune with your desires and guaranty high success rate of successful meet-up. But remember that success solely depends on your actions - how you made your profile, the kind of photos you uploaded, how you did the first contact for friendship and the actual exchange of messages. Trustworthiness and being true is one of the major keys of success here.

Do not rush anything. When the time is right, It will happen. Know your match very well. Taking it slowly will allow you to think and reassess some risk factors. Start Filorgy video conversation, talk everything you like to know before deciding to meet. It is always safer to verify the real behaviour and identity of your match on camera to camera conversation before having meet-ups. Do not be deceived by the words.

Social Engagement

Treat each other courteously - Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity. Courtesy is treating people the way we ourselves want to be treated.

Be friendly - Whether or not you are personally interested with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.

Don't be pushy - If you are interested with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. No amount of sweet talk or coercion on your part will change their mind and will probably work against you. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.

Always get permission before doing something - You may have had a talk about boundaries but people can feel like things and not feel like things in the moment, so it’s a good etiquette to just ask, “Is it ok?”

Only do what is fun for you - Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.

How and why to say no - One of the basic etiquettes in Lifestyle is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation can however lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The Lifestyle world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.

Engage in safe sex - It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhoea, aids, yeast infection, etc.., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.

Maintain your personal hygiene - Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or un-fresh breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your meetups.

Enjoy yourself - Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.

General Safety Guidelines

Filorgy requires everyone to have a face photo in profile - Just like in a physical dating scenario, you are required to meet your potential partner face to face. Just imagine, you are paired by Filorgy and need to introduce yourselves, Isn't it awkward if you or your paired match cover your faces during introduction? Please note that this is strictly imposed for everyone's safety. Improper profile photo can result removal, may lower the quality of your match results or even ban your account or device.

You should not ask any other communication medium aside from Filorgy - Filorgy is serious about valuing both of your safety and privacy. What you do in Filorgy, hear in Filorgy, see in Filorgy, stays in Filorgy. Never accept invite to other social network, websites or other messaging services for it been the common practise of online predators to cover its track. If you have been match to a person with this type of behavour please ignore or report to filorgy helpdesk for flagging.

Never meet a person you never talked using Filorgy video call service - Filorgy provides additional layer of safety to its members by using the video calling service. This will give you enough time to validate its identity and to ensure that the person you are communicating is real.

Never give out your personal phone number until you meet in person - Use the chat, video call service features offered on our system. Build rapport first before going too personal.

Meeting someone through Filorgy is inherently similar to meeting through specialized offline venues and as long as the same standards of safety are followed, you can feel at ease while getting to know each other in this new social scene. Just trust your instincts and use common sense. If you are planning on meeting someone in person, remember the following:

Always meet in a visible, neutral location. Provide your own transportation to and from and never make arrangements to meet or be picked up at your home or office.

Always meet in a public place like a restaurant, coffee shop or mall.

Try and tell at least two people where you're going to be, the name of the person you're meeting, what they look like and when you expect to be home. You can provide this information without revealing the purpose of your meeting.

Go at your own pace.

Plan for a short first date so that if you feel uncomfortable, you have an easy way out.

Always be mindful of the personal details you're providing and do not reveal information that may make it easy to locate you in the event you do not wish to see the person again.

Use your common sense and good judgment. If you get a bad feeling about your date, it may be better to simply cancel.

Keep personal items with you at all times. You don't want to risk having personal information stolen. If you're drinking, keep your drink with you at all times so it can't be tampered with.

Health Safety Guidelines

Partying and having fun can turn sexual at any time, even if you were strangers from each other or with a friend. It is fun, exciting but it's not without a risk. Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STD) are real and it could be your reality if you don't play it safe.

Before engaging in sexual activity, it is not only acceptable but often expected of you to ask your potential partners about any questions or concerns that you may have. This will add another layer of safety and that is always a great thing! Always follow safe sex practices do not engage with others who do not practice safe sex and only have sex with people who you know to be honest.

Some questions you should ask of potential sex partners are:

* Do you always practice safe sex?

* Do you or have you ever played with partners that are high risk such as bisexual men or anyone that uses IV drugs?

* When were you last tested for STDs (especially HIV)?

* Do you use condoms at all times?

In case of friendly sex or sexual sharing, make sure to change condoms between partners.

Use a condom when giving head. Use a Dental Dam for oral and vaginal stimulation or cut a condom to serve the same purpose. Condoms can come in flavors for just this purpose.

Use latex gloves along with a good lubricate for genitals probing. (latex or nitrile- make sure to check that your partner is not allergic to latex before using latex gloves or latex condoms) and lubricant (again, check for allergies before using lubricant, especially if it is flavored or scented)

Legal Safety Guidelines

(Varies depending on your locality)

You should not do things that will get you into trouble:

Avoid taking photos or videos. You might get into trouble with the RA 9995 - Anti Photo and Video Voyeurism Act specially if partners doesn't want their photos and videos taken.

Avoid sexual act in public places unless every one there is okay with that. (Public Scandal).

Avoid having sex with a person intoxicated by drug or alcohol. That person could have devoid of reasoning and can constitute as Rape (Anti-Rape Law).

Do not force or trick your partner to go into Lifestyle if she or he doesn't want to. Remember that Lifestyle is a mutual agreement. If one doesn't agree don't do it. (Anti-Rape Law).

Avoid touching persons sensitive parts (breast, butt, thigh) without consent. This constitutes either the crime of “acts of lasciviousness” or “unjust vexation,” depending on the intent and the circumstances.

Avoid repeatedly asking out a person who’s not interested (Sexual Harassment Law).

If you are couple make sure that you and your partner agree and trust each other specially if you are married. This is to avoid problems with Adultery and Concubinage Law (This law is not applicable to singles and unmarried couple).

Account Inactivity

Inactive account for 30 days will automatically put your account to dormant. Inactivity for the period longer than 90 days will deactivate your account from the matching network. Inactive account will automaticaly be reactivated once you login.